Five stages of life

Hello Dear Blogger Readers,

I have enjoyed watching Wayne Dyer recently in one of his old YouTube videos. He tells the following story in various ways in his talks. 

Wayne Dyer asked one of his workshops to perform an exercise which involved writing the five chapters of their life. A couple of sentences about their life. He remembers one written by Portia Nelson. Here is the story he tells.

Chapter One

I walked along the street and fell into a giant hole which I didn't see. I was lost in the hole, helpless, it wasn't my fault! It took me forever to find a way out.

Chapter Two

I walked along the street and pretended I didn't see the giant hole. I fell into the hole. It wasn't my fault. It takes a long time to get out.

Chapter Three

I walked along the street and fell into the giant hole. I fall in, I know where I am, I get out immediately.

Chapter Four

I walked along the street, I see the deep hole, I walk around it.

Chapter Five

I walk down a different street.


This is such a simple example of how we repeat patterns, whether it is addictive behaviour, abusive relationship patterns, bad business decisions, poor relationship choices. Whatever is happening for us in our lives we often repeat the same steps until we learn enough that we can take different steps.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin xx

A few questions for you.

Hello Dear Blogger Reader,

If you need any help figuring out what you are sending out to the Universe, ask yourself these questions.

When you can answer an emphatic YES to each question, you are on the right path. The point of this list is to help you to clarify where you are, what you are thinking and feeling. This is why people go for counselling, there is only so far you can go by helping yourself. Don't get me wrong, you can go a long way, many people have, but for those who are stuck or unsure where they are going wrong, a qualified therapist can be the most useful tool you can find. The questions below are from an Abraham-Hicks workshop. The best way to use these questions is to read through the list until you can't say YES, and then start again, over and over until you catch up with how you feel about the question. If in doubt, find a therapist.

Do you accept you are a vibrational being? 

Do you believe you live in a vibrational universe?

Do you believe that the Law of Attraction is working in the background, just like Gravity?

Do you believe that the Law of Attraction is responding to your vibration?

Do you believe your vibration equals your Point of Attraction?

Do you think you have some measure of control over the vibration you are offering?

Do you believe the thoughts you think and the way you feel are connected?

Do you think you have got some beliefs that are hindering?

Do you think you have got some beliefs that are helping?

Do you think you have the ability to emphasise the helpful thoughts while you diminish the unhelpful ones?

Do you think there is a way within you to feel the difference with what you are doing?

Do you think your emotions let you know?

Do you believe that you have the ability to think thoughts that feel good?

Do you believe you have the ability to stop a hindering thought in the middle of your awareness of it?

Do you believe that with practice it will get easier?

Do you believe that starting with the easiest of those thoughts is the best way to go about it?

Do you believe the Universe will respond to a better feeling thought with evidence?

Is your point of attraction important to you?

Is your point of attraction the most important thing to you at the moment?

So, as you work your way down this list, the answer to all the questions is YES! By tuning yourself up to the best feeling thoughts you can, helping yourself to feel better and helping to find out where your point of attraction can be improved, moved, changed, no matter how slightly, in a better feeling direction.

If you would like to book a Law of Attraction Counselling session feel free to call me on 07580 514 147. 

Thanks

Tamasin